Wow, the lack of trust is a bit worrying. ☹ I hope you two can have a chat and figure things out.
As for addiction, I totally agree with what you've said about addiction @charleyw1993. Sadly, addiction is very misunderstood and most people can't see past the "well it's easy to stop drugs, just don't take them" mentality. People most of the time do things for a reason. Without figuring out that reason and solving that problem, people are just going to continue. ☹