"Sorry if I am becoming a pest now but does anyone think that there should be the option to pause a goody bag somewhere? "
No -it's clear that this is a one month package - so if that's not what you want simply don't buy it.
The same "non-problem" exists if you have a contract - as far as I am aware there is no network that allows you to "pause" a contract.
If you want to "pause" your payments then you Pay As You Go - but then you pay higher pro-rata usage costs. You can't have both package (or contract) usage rates AND pay only when you use the phone - you have to decide which is better for you.