Massive congratulations on the news of your forthcoming little pink bundle of joy.
there's so much i want to say to help you out but i will stick with just a few (hopefully you pop back in to the forum to read )
Don't be hard on yourself,there is no right or wrong way of bringing up your little girl,we all made mistakes especially with our first,it's definetly a learning curb,the most amazing feeling is when she is born and you hold her for the first time,the feeling is unbelievable and life is never the same again (in a totally fantastic way)
Babies are tougher than they look,all those thoughts "am i doing this right " just go with it,you will be fine,when baby sleeps make sure you take that time to nap yourself in the first few weeks,but most of all enjoy
All the best,see you next year,can't wait to hear how the year has gone xxx